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Sunday, March 23, 2008
Therapy Dog Training - Working With Your Dog
Therapy
dog training, while
important, is something with which
many people
are not familiar.
A therapy dog is one that is used
to do animal
assisted therapy
and activities. Organizations train
the dog to help people
in hospitals, schools, nursing homes, and
virtually anywhere people need some
sort of therapy.
So, then,
how do
dogs become therapy dogs? It is a
fairly simple process.
A Good Citizen
Though
the requirements
for therapy
dog training vary from state
to state, it is
almost universal that
the dog must
be certified
as a
canine good citizen. In
order to receive that,
you have
to train
your dog
to be
focused and well behaved around distractions. Generally
your local animal shelter
or even a therapy dog
training center
will have classes available for you
to learn how
to turn your dog
into a canine good citizen.
Classes for Therapy
Therapy dog training
can start as soon as your dog
has been certified as a canine good citizen.
The training consists
mainly of teaching your dog how
to ignore things like
hospital equipment and school noises that
he or she may not be used
to being around. They also train
the dog to help with simple activities and therapy with those who need it. However, in many cases, the therapy is
really just the presence of the dog. Those
using the
services of dogs trained in how to
perform the therapy
can be anything from walking them, to
reading to them, to
simply being around them.
Where to Go
If you are
interested in therapy dog training for your four
legged pal, then you
should check
out the
internet or your
local yellow pages. Whether you live in Virginia, California, or
anywhere else, there is an organization in your
area that will help you not only teach your dog how to become a therapy
dog, but also get him out in the community and
doing his
part. Additionally, you can volunteer to help with everything from training to the therapy itself. Just get in
contact with your
local organization.
Therapy dog training can be
incredibly rewarding.
When you teach your dog how to
react to the
situations with which he will be presented, you are putting him in a situation to be more
than just a pet. You and your dog together can be real additions to the community and help your fellow man.
Dean Iggo is the
webmaster of
http://www.dogtrainingadvisor.com providing tips and
advice on dog obedience training at home, including obedience, potty training and more.
Dog Whispering Behind the Scenes
Ethology
is the science
that studies
behaviors of a species
under natural situations. Therefore,
it studies instinctive
and non-instinctive behaviors
that are typical
of a species.
Dog
whispering is a training technique
based on canine ethology. So, it takes into account those behaviors that
are natural
in dogs, but usually ignore
the principles
of learning theories.
The fundamental
premise of dog whispering
is that
the owner should
become the
leader of the
pack. This
is also
known as the
theory or paradigm of the alpha dog.
According to the alpha
dog paradigm, dogs establish
dominance hierarchies
in the pack. Thus, you should
achieve the higher hierarchy, the alpha
dog status, in
order to maintain a good relationship with your dog.
Though it is not clear when the paradigm of the alpha dog appeared, it is
well known that it gained popularity in the eighties.
Jan Fennell
and Cesar Millan
are two of the
most famous practitioners of dog whispering. The latter is perhaps the most famed trainer at these
days, because of his show "The Dog Whisperer" broadcasted
by National Geographic.
Some authors say that dog whispering is based
on scientific studies of
wolf packs. Others say the technique was
developed after studying the social
behavior of dogs
for several years.
Unfortunately,
there are several non-standardized
variants of this
technique. Besides,
some of the technique variants seem to be based only on popular beliefs
and not on
real studies about dog behavior.
Dog whispering
by itself is useless to teach
obedience commands. For that reason, many trainers don't accept it as real training technique. Moreover, it is also frequent that
practitioners of this technique don't consider themselves as dog trainers. Instead, they
claim they are
people who can communicate with dogs by a deep
understanding of dog
behavior and proper body language.
Dog whispering advocates claim that the technique
provides a natural
way to communicate with dogs. Some of these people also
tend to use non-violent procedures. However, the degree of violence is highly
variable and depends on the
method used by the trainer.
Detractors claim that there is a lack of solid arguments in this technique. They also claim that dog whispering is based on popular
beliefs, which
could be true
for several of
its variants.
Same detractors usually question the alpha dog paradigm and argue that there's no need for a model based on dominance hierarchies.
Biologists Raymond and
Lorna Coppinger are among the few people who
carried out extensive scientific studies on social behavior and
evolution of dogs. Their studies reject the paradigm of the alpha dog, and these
scientists say that
wolves and dogs have very different behavior repertoires. Therefore, studies on the behavior of wolves shouldn't be
useful for a better understanding of dog's behavior.
Perhaps further studies on
canine ethology could lead to a better understanding of dog behavior.
Meanwhile, most dog whispering variants can't provide clear and precise guidelines for dog training; even when there are some really successful "dog
whisperers" like Cesar Millan and Jan Fennell.
Rodrigo Trigosso is a biologist and professional dog trainer.
His website
http://www.dog-training-tutorial.com provides great info on canine training and behavior.
Do Herding Dogs Make Good Pets?
It isn't so
much a matter of physical exercise, although
that would make them very happy
and tired. Mental
exercise is an absolute must
for herding dogs. With proper
training and socialization,
they are
wonderful pets.
Modern
breed research
and understanding
suggests that even intelligent dogs need
training. What happens to a lot
of herding dogs that get taken
to the shelters
is that
their owners
don't bother to
train them. They hear
the breed is intelligent
and expect it to
train itself.
Also
a lot
of the
shelter dogs are
impulse buys
from pet stores, flea markets and parking
lots by people who have
no understanding of what a herding breed
needs. An untrained and
unsocialized herding
dog can be a
nightmare for a family
with young
children because they can and often do
become very
protective and territorial.
That can lead to the dog acting out
aggressively based on
his natural protective
instincts or based on
his fear.
This is a
broad generalization and
not all dogs
will react this way, but a
strong guardian
instinct is part of the herding breed standard. This is not surprising because they have been
bred since
ancient times to guard the farm,
ranch, family and livestock.
Positive reinforcement training and
consistent socialization are essential to living
in peace (and
having peace of
mind) with a herding dog breed.
Dear Dog Owner,
The Parent-Child Sex Talk
In
the already infamous condom episode
of South Park,
the town decides
that sex education
is desperately needed in the schools
after a number of the kids
are caught innocently milking male dogs. As with
most South Park episodes, much raunchy humor follows. And also as with most South Park episodes, there's
a final moral
that ends
up being both serious
and legitimatein this
case the point
that sex education needs
to be taught
not in the schools (or
at least
not primarily in the schools)
but at home. Which is, of
course, easier said than done.
*
* *
In fact,
talking to our children
about S-E-X
is one of the most
difficult talks
that many
parents will face. That tiny, 3-letter word seems to hold a spell over us
and by uttering
it to a child we think we
are going to hell.
Some parents are afraid that if they discuss sex with their child, Child Protective Services
will soon be knocking at their door. They think that if they talk sex they are
going to be accused of pedophilia
or being weird. Others feel that if they teach their child about sex and
birth control they are advocating promiscuity. Some of us are so damn uptight that we just hope that the schools
will do a good job of
teaching sex
or our kids will see other kids getting pregnant or
an STD and decide
on their own to wait. A wise, responsible parent will equip their child with the knowledge that will
help and protect the child
should they become sexually active. Each year roughly two million children are born to unmarried parents in the
United States alone. If
you don't want
your child to be one of these parents or you are not ready to be one of the grandparents, you better get with the program and start talking about sex. Hopefully you will start at an
early age and keep right
on talking even after you
have the kids married off.
* * *
When children are young we talk to them using terminology that they can understand but do not hide the obvious or the truth. If they see a couple of dogs
hooking up you explain that the dogs are making babies. We can read toddlers and small children
books that are written at their level. When you see your children touching themselves you
need to let them know that it
is okay to touch it but to do so someplace private. And you want to make sure that a small child understands that their private area is not to be touched by others and that if someone tries to or does, they
need to tell you right away and that you will not be mad at them.
* * *
During
all sex talks turn off the television, radio and cell phone. Turn on the
telephone answering machine and select a time when you are less likely to be disturbed by someone
coming to the door. Make the talks special
and, if you
have more than one kid, don't try to save time by having them all at once. While it is okay for older children to be in on the conversation with the younger children, the
opposite is not advised. When a 13-year-old
boy sees that
his 10-year-old
sister is getting hairy armpits and the only hair
he has is on his head,
he feels that something
horrible must be wrong. So
have two separate talks. Reassure your son he's not a monster, and tell your daughter about menstruation so that when she experiences that first flow she won't think she's bleeding to death. I would suggest purchasing a good book on
puberty and not just give it to them but also first read it yourself and then together and answer
any questions they may have. Books like this can be found in bookstores or at educational websites like Ask Uncle Terry.
* * *
By the age of
13 you should be talking about birth control and masturbation. Let your child know that masturbation is something most all of us practice and it is normal. Tell him about precum and semen so that the first time your son has an orgasm he will not think that he broke
something. Put lotion and
tissue in your son's room for those runny noses and to keep his
hands soft. This will not embarrass him and it will help you with the cleanup. But there are other times, of course, when a
topic has to be addressed directly.
When these times come up you can't be afraid to explore the topic candidly. Remember you are the parent, so be strong and stay the course and, if necessary, demand that your children do, too. Take control, be open, have a
dialogue and have them tell you
what they have learned from school, their friends or on their own. Answer their questions fully
without sugar coating. Discuss
masturbation, sexual safety, STDs and protection. Remember that diseases like AIDS and hepatitis can be deadly, making the use of condoms mandatory.
* * *
Oral sex has become a prevalent form of sex among our children, so discuss it openly and
remind them that while they will not become pregnant through oral or anal intercourse they can still get a sexually transferred disease. Answer their questions about oral sex and anything else is one way of showing that you are always there for them. Make it perfectly clear that they need to wait until adulthood before becoming sexually active, but if they do make the plunge earlier don't turn your back on them or refuse to answer questions about condoms or birth control. It may make you feel uncomfortable, but that's the price that you need to be willing to pay for knowing you are doing your best to protect your tween and teen children from
raising children of their own.
* * *
For parents that needs a little refresher course on abstinence, sex and
masturbation, check out
http://www.askuncleterry.comTerrance
Lile (Uncle Terry) is not your typical writer and advisor on sexual relationships. He serves frank,
down to earth, sometimes brutal
advice on sex and life. He uses humor and knowledge gained through extensive reading and personal experience. He has the
support of advisors from medical and mental professionals to educators and clergy and pornographers to prostitutes. Uncle Terry can be found at
http://www.askuncleterry.com
Tips For Preparing For Your Piano Exam
Whether
you are
a new
piano player
or a full-time professional, exams
can be
a strenuous
and often daunting task. Each
exam has its separate challenges. However,
if you prepare
for your exams correctly, it could mean
the difference between passing
and failing.
For
this example, let us pretend
that we are sitting
for a Grade Six
piano exam. Let
the record denote that
I have sat
and passed a Grade Six exam. Although admittedly I did
not pass it well - this was caused by a severe lack
of preparation leading up
to the exam. I did not
put the time
or effort into my preparation for this music exam. I can assure
you from first hand experience that
you need more than 15 minutes practice three
to four times a week
to effectively prepare for a Grade Six piano exam!
THREE MONTHS BEFORE THE EXAM
At this time
you should be doing approximately one hour's worth of practice a day,
five days a week. In
your selected pieces you should be able to at least
press all of
the right notes.
This is the time to start developing
your pieces from a series of notes to a piano masterpiece. Concentrate on things like expression, dynamics and tempo. Put some feelings and emotion into
your pieces. You should also profusely study
all of your theory and scales. Too often scales and theory are neglected at this time and are only revised
about a fortnight before the exam. This is a terrible mistake! Remember the more you study now, the more you
will retain this information, thus having a better
chance of recalling the required knowledge during your exam.
ONE MONTH BEFORE THE EXAM
It is time to up the anti a bit.
You should be spending one and a half to
two hours practicing a day, six days a week. This is the time to smooth out all of the minor flaws in your pieces of
music. Practice things like getting that tricky triplet
sounding fluent and making sure you hit the F sharp
with your fourth finger rather than the fifth. These issues might seem minor, but it will help you immensely with your exam.
Practice without the sheet music in front of you and see
how well you go. During your exam if you rely too heavily on your score, I can guarantee you will stuff up. Learn your music off by
heart. Also, make sure that your exam becomes your number one priority.
Do not be distracted by other issues in your life. Do not become distracted by relationship, financial or other issues that might divert your attention from your exam. You will become stressed and worn out, and you will not perform at your potential.
ONE WEEK BEFORE YOUR EXAM
Now is the time to just practice, practice,
practice! I
would recommend doing between two to three hours per day by now. You should have all of the knowledge required for the exam.
It is
simply a matter of revising it for your exam.
Whilst we are working and studying hard, we have to remain relaxed. Put it into perspective; it is only an exam. There is no need to worry about it 24/7.
DAY BEFORE YOUR EXAM
Most people on the night before an exam practice for 5-6 hours, studying until some ungodly hour in the morning. This is a big no-no! At maximum you should only play through your pieces once.
What I like to
do is pretend I am actually sitting for the exam. So I would do my scales first,
then my pieces in order, and then do some sight reading.
Don't
try to do any last minute revision for your exam. Chances are that you will only put unneeded pressure on yourself and more importantly you will only have a small chance to remember it for your exam. Do not get distracted by other things in your life. Your piano exam is tomorrow - everything else can wait another day.
Relax!
It is essential that you get a good night's sleep. I would recommend that you get 8 to 10 hours solid sleep if you can afford the
luxury. MORNING BEFORE YOUR EXAM
Do not do any work, whether it is piano
related or not. Do something fun that doesn't require a lot of brain power. Watch a movie. Kick a soccer ball. Do
whatever that suits you.
Try to eat a healthy breakfast. However, if you suffer from butterflies in the
stomach, which I suffer from immensely, don't try to force anything down. It will only comes straight back up! (Trust me!)
I will
say it again, RELAX! Try not to
think about your exam. Don't try to
think about your theory, scales, pieces, fingering etc. etc. Don't think about
what you have and haven't done for your exam. This is only
going to get you all frazzled and this will seriously hinder your exam.
30
MINUTES BEFORE THE EXAM
By now you should be at the venue where your exam is being held. Do some ultra-light revision. Look through your music sheets and visualize yourself playing it as you read the notes. Play some 'air-piano.' Test yourself with a couple of theory questions.
Do not under any circumstances
talk to other people about the exam. Do not ask each other theory questions. Do not discuss your pieces. Do not talk about previous exams or examiners. This is nothing more than an unwanted hindrance. Take a few deep breaths, relax and focus on your exam.
5 MINUTES BEFORE THE EXAM
Close the books for a moment. Take three deep breaths and focus. Think to yourself that this is just like any other piano practice session. Go into the exam with positive thoughts. Whether you have prepared yourself for the exam as I have discussed above or not, it does not matter now. All you can do now is concentrate on the upcoming task of your exam.
DURING THE EXAM
Two things will be happening to you about now. Firstly, you think you are doing well. Great! Ride on this wave of euphoria until the end of the exam. But you must not slack off! You still have a couple of pieces or a couple of scales or some theory to do. You must concentrate until the end of the exam.
A lot can
happen between now and then.
The second thing that could be happening to you during your piano exam is that you think you are performing badly. Forget about it! It doesn't matter what has happened. You still have the
rest of the exam to impress the examiner. A lot can change between now and the end of the exam.
Another point worth thinking about is just because you think that you have done a
bad job, doesn't mean that the examiner knows you've done a bad job. He/She will not pick up every single mistake you make. Just forget what has happened, clear your mind and start again with your
next task. Think about what is going to happen, not what has just happened.
AFTER THE EXAM
Congratulations! You have completed your exam! You can now breathe a huge sigh of relief! It's finally over!
Carefully analyse your exam. What did you do well? What do you do badly? What could you have done to improve? Make notes so you can use them as a reference for future exams.
Be careful not to be too confident with your exam. You might be disappointed when you see your results. Conversely, do not be too negative with your exam and think that you have done badly. More often than not you will get a nice surprise!
RECEIVING YOUR RESULTS
After waiting one to two weeks for your results to come back, you would be naturally excited, or at least
inquisitive to see your results. Have you done well and/or better than you expected? Have you done worse than you have thought? Either way, read your examiner's comments at least three times. See what they liked about your piano examination and what they didn't. No matter how well you did, you can always improve! Next year's exams are guaranteed to be harder than this year.
Take the assessor's comments on board, but also take your own thoughts on board. Was your preparation leading up to the exam as good as it could have been?
Nine times out of ten, if you have done
badly you generally know why. Think about why you did badly and improve! Learn from your mistakes. Do not get depressed! It is not the end of the world. There is always next year.
I hope this article was helpful for your preparations for your exam. This is what I personally do when preparing for a piano exam.
Obviously, if you have your own
routine that works, by all means stick to it. However, if you do pick up one piece of advice from this article and apply it successfully, I will consider this article a success. Good
Luck for your exams and most importantly, remember you can only do your best.
Christopher Carlin is the founder of the new resource for piano players, Free Piano Sheet Music. He has applied over twelve years of piano knowledge and experience into this article. Visit Free Piano Sheet Music to get free piano sheet
music, articles, tools and much much more.
Football Crazy Wall Clock
Do you know someone who
is football crazy? Is your Dad
a footy nut? Is your brother a
soccer Fanatic? This
is possibly
the bestest Crimbo pressie
you can make them.
You can
make it fit any
football team
of your choosing,
or add
an assortment
of football teams. You could also adapt
this idea
to make a net-ball, basketball,
or rugby
clock. To make a Football Crazy Wall Clock you
will need...
Paint, thick
card or an
old grocery box, a
clock mechanism
and clock hands (you
will find
these at craft shops)
and a print out
of pattern
of football shirts which is available at
the link below.
Colour
the football shirts
in the teams strip you
choose. You can colour them
randomly if you wish. Number
each shirt 1
to 12.
To make
the clock face, draw around a
large dinner plate
or a tea
tray onto some card. An old grocery
box is great. Cut out
two identical circles,
and glue them together so that
the lines
in the cards
structure cross, this
will give
the clock face extra strength.
Once
the glue is dry, paint
the clock face green. Again leave to
dry. With white paint, paint
on a
centre line
through the middle of the clock face,
and paint a kick off circle
in the middle of the clock.
Push a
pencil through the centre of the clock face
ready to attach the clock mechanism. Be
very careful
and use the old Plasticine trick - Put a ball of Plasticine
on the
table, put your
card on top of it where you need the
hole to
be, and push the pencil through the card and
into the
Plasticine. Arrange the football shirts on the clock face and
stick them down.
Push the clock spindle through the hole and push on the hands.
The mechanism
has a hole for hanging the clock on the wall.
Put a battery in the clock and set the
time. S. Roberts
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